SPEAKING, PODCASTS, WORKSHOPS & ARTICLES
Book Andy to speak about men, relationships and the work of becoming more capable.
Andy Nathan is a men’s relationship specialist, podcast host and experienced facilitator working with men who are capable in public, but often underprepared for the emotional and relational demands of private life.
Topics Andy can speak about
Andy speaks and writes about the places where modern men are most likely to lose themselves: relationships, responsibility, emotional capacity, conflict, shame, work, fatherhood, initiation and the private cost of public competence.
Why capable men struggle in relationships
For professional men who can lead teams, make decisions and carry responsibility, but find themselves defensive, avoidant or shut down at home.
The Relationship Blueprint
How early adaptations become adult relationship patterns, and why men often repeat the same conflict, distance and repair cycles despite genuinely wanting to change.
The masks men wear
How men hide behind being fine, useful, successful, independent, logical, easygoing or in control, and what those masks cost in intimacy.
Conflict, repair and emotional responsibility
Why communication advice often fails, and what men need to develop if they are going to stay present when the relationship conversation gets difficult.
Men, work and the private cost of performance
How professional competence can become a refuge from intimacy, and why some men find it easier to succeed publicly than be known privately.
Initiation, maturity and modern masculinity
What men have lost in a culture with fewer meaningful rites of passage, and how responsibility, accountability and emotional range become part of mature manhood.
From shame to responsibility
How men can face the damage their patterns have caused without collapsing into self-hatred, blame or defensiveness.
Available for
Podcast interviews and guest conversations
Keynotes, talks and panel discussions
Workshops for leadership teams, men’s groups and professional communities
Articles, essays and expert commentary
Private events and in-person facilitated conversations
If you are not sure whether Andy is the right fit for your event, podcast or organisation, send a brief note about what you are planning.
Enquire about booking Andy
For podcast interviews, speaking enquiries, workshops, articles or private events, send a short note with the context, audience, date and what you would like Andy to speak about.
If it feels like a good fit, we can arrange a conversation.